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The photo sucks but that morning didn’t. I miss you Aaron.
I love you Jason. Thank you for all of your help. You and Carolyn have been amazing. I really miss his too.
Sending thoughts & prayers to the family. Aaron was our class president at OHS & I will always remember him for his smile, humor & having our lockers next to each other throughout school. This world has lost a truly amazing human being. ❤️
Where to start??? Jump off waterfalls, hiking to the peak of mountains to ski down, biking on the rim of the Grandest Canyon…. Aaron was always pushing the envelope.
So very sorry to hear of Aaron’s passing. I remember spending many nights at his house on Center street, laughing, drinking wine and listening to classical music. He was very kind and loving.
Well, all I can say about Aaron was he was someone I loved very much and this is a terrible blow. He was everything that Jeff said about him.
Dr. Aaron Goldman was a great man. I knew him as Uncle Aaron. This photo of us is at Lake Powell on a rental boat having one of the greatest times I’ve had on the water just hanging with family relaxing. That day was the first time I ever drove a boat. Many great memories but this trip will always stick out to me. May you Rest In Peace.
When you are a kid there is nothing cooler than older cousins. In my case, the older (2nd) cousin was Aaron. He was 7 years older and I thought he was fascinating.
Aaron and I were not close, but as a kid, I always looked up to him. I clearly remember he wore this awesome suit to his Bar Mitzvah like the ones 80’s celebrities wore on red carpets and that was just the so rad. Fashion alone doesn’t make a lasting impression but what did was seeing him at family events talking to others. As a pre-teen I couldn’t believe how well he listened to even the most “talkative” relatives. I would say to myself “he can’t really be enjoying that conversation?!?” but he seemed to be so engaged with a smile…and what an awesome smile it was. These memories I have are just a tiny snapshot of a very amazing life that was cut too short. I wish I had known Aaron more but seeing others’ stories makes me realize he is exactly who I thought he was…truly excellent and pretty rad.
Sending love and condolences from my family (The Freases) my parents-Scott and Andi Ingram and my brother Michael Ingram and family.
You’ll be missed. Thanks for the laughs.
He always had a way of lighting up the room. He was always smiling and always trying to make everyone else smile. I don’t think anyone could not love him. We’ll miss you Aaron ❤️
I love what you said, Caspian. I agree wholeheartedly.
I love this one.
Our Nephew Aaron was like a bright light.
When he entered a room , you knew it.
Recently, as a result of this unspeakable tragedy we have been in touch with family who for many years we have not had any contact with and maybe out of this darkness, relationships will be reignited.
That’s what Aaron was all about
Family / friends / relationships.
I know he’d really smile , that smile if he were here.
That’s just part of his legacy.
I love this Mark, I agree.
“That’s what Aaron was all about
Family / friends / relationships.
I know he’d really smile , that smile if he were here.
That’s just part of his legacy.”
I feel like I know Dr. Aaron Goldman although we have officially never met. I met his father in 1979. Dr. Goldman was my psychology professor, the best professor I ever had. Dr. Goldman’s energy was evident as was the energy of his precious son Aaron. In 2000 I had the extreme fortune of working with Dr. Goldman at Springbrook for a period of 22 years. We met on Tuesdays. In between dealing with student needs we talked about our favorite conversation, our family. When Dr. Goldman mentioned Aaron his eyes lit up, a brilliant smile always there, love and stories easy to share. Dr. Goldman talked about how proud he was, the accomplishments and the amazing “dad” his precious son, Dr. Aaron Goldman was and still is through our eyes, heart and soul. On a personal note I am grateful for the poignant, heart driven stories as it gave me the honor to know Aaron through Dr. Goldman’s heart and soul by his examples and stories. All my love to everyone as you continue your journey and love for memories and soul. Lori Moss
So much love.
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Aaron and I spent much of our time together laughing and joking. We had a similar silly, and sometimes (often?) inappropriate, sense of humor. He and I could play a game of “Would You Rather” like no other. Being around him was easy. He was such a jovial, kind, caring, and genuine human being. There were no fake conversations with Aaron. He was willing to be vulnerable and no topic was off limits. All I can hear as I write this is his laugh/giggle. It was the best laugh. His laughter and how his eyes lit up, is how l want to remember Aaron every time I think of him. As we all are, I am devastated by this loss.
My father was the most amazing dad I could ever had. I loved how he could always make my day better with just one hug or laugh. I love how he surrounded my entire family with this light that could make you get through the worst days. I will always love him in no way ever imaginable. I loved how he could have a deep conversation with you and he would just listen and help. When I got the news I was shocked I couldn’t believe what happened I lost the only person who made me so happy. The one thing I regret the most is that I didn’t hug him in the morning before he died. Now all I do is hold on to all the memories of the hugs I had with him. I am so thankful for all the support the community of Flagstaff has given me. In the past week I have seen so many signs that his sprit is still here and I am thankful for that. Reading all of the comments from so many people everywhere I can see how big of an impact he made all over the world and how he will be missed by everyone that knew him. I wrote a poem I would like to share because my dad loved reading them.
SEASONS
I will remember you in the winter for all of powder runs we did together
I will remember you in spring for all of the buds on the trees.
I will remember you in the summer for the camping trips we did together.
I will remember you in the fall most of all because of the red orange and yellow leaves fluttering off of the trees.
I will miss you forever but the seasons will remind me of you in every different way.
Your dad loved you very much. I know how proud and supportive of you he was. He was a very good man and dad, with a huge heart. He will always be a part of you. ❤️
That is a beautiful poem you wrote about your father. He will always and forever be with you. You will always be reminded of his presence throughout your lifetime. It could be the little things, just like what you wrote in your poem, and in those little moments it could be his way of checking in on you and reminding you that he is always there for you and how much he truly loves you. Hold on those beautiful memories forever and keep writing those beautiful poems because all of those things will keep your father’s memory alive. I’m sending you a big hug and wish you and your family all the best and my deepest condolences as well. Lean on them during these hard times.
Ananda, I remember when the Rio was flooding and you were harassing your Dad to SUP it…scared me so bad!! You are Brave. I’m so sorry he can’t take you next flood.
Aaron was one of my closest friends. I loved him wholely. Life won’t be the same without his giggle. RIP
Aaron completed his fellowship in Child & Adolescent Psychiatry in Phoenix, where I am the department Chair; he was a kind, gentle and caring person. I continued to speak to him periodically over the years in his role as medical director of a health plan in northern Arizona; he was always dedicated to improving the care of patients – not at all the typical “insurance company doctor”. His untimely passing is a great loss to the citizens of Arizona. The thoughts of our entire department are with his family and friends during this hard time.
Our family had the pleasure of meeting Aaron and his family six years ago and have never looked back on the happenstance, soaking up all opportunities to hang, camp, cook, laugh, hold intellectual conversations but most of all show our children true care and love for all.
Aaron is missed and we all will simply adore seeing his amazing children continue to grow as they too become caring and loving adults. Much love as always, the Hagins
Aaron was a gem. He was a man of genuine character and sincerity, I’m proud to say he was my friend. Family, friends, and his community will miss him.
My most heartfelt condolences to you Shari, Ananda and Leland.
Here is one of my Favourite pictures of us with Aaron that I see every day as it’s been my Personal Desktop Background picture since that Wedding. Miss you Aaron, and the four of us will get together and raise a glass or few in your Honour!
I learned of Aaron’s death from a former colleague from DDD today, 08/31//2023 and am very sad to hear of his untimely passing. I was on the faculty of his Child Psychiatry Fellowship Program and it was my pleasure to work with him. He was very knowledgeable and kind; I never saw him without a smile on his face. I was happy to hear of the family’s move to Flagstaff because of Aaron’s love of the outdoors and the need for good Child Psychiatric care in Northern Arizona. The Arizona child psychiatric community has lost a wonderful man. My condolences to his family.
Aaron, I have thought for days about what to say only to realize I have no words. You are loved and missed. Rest peacefully my brother.
The first time I met Aaron at Lees Ferry back in 2019 I thought ‘I want to be friends with this guy’! I’m grateful we would spend the next few years waxing existential as we hiked, biked and paddled around Flagstaff and beyond. Our last waltz led us to this beautiful overlook in New Hampshire. See you further down the trail my friend…
Grateful for the laughs and adventures we’ve shared, including the scorpion encounter at 5 am in the Phantom Ranch cabin. Love and miss you, brother!
Aaron showed me the ropes of psychiatry and addiction medicine, as my Supervising Physician, when I was fresh out of PA school. We spent many an hour driving to more remote clinics, hiking through the Hualapai Mountains, and just BSing about life in general, as he taught me his knowledge in his own way. He guided me when I needed it, allowed me to learn from my errors, and eventually trusted me as a peer, and for that, I will be forever thankful for helping to build the confidence I now have. He brought a unique sense of levity to a difficult field, and we were often told to go “sit in the corner” during staff meetings because we couldn’t maintain our professionalism and were a couple of sophomoric knuckleheads.
I wouldn’t be the provider I am today without his tutelage, and our community has lost an amazing human.
You are being celebrated today in Flagstaff today, for the amazing person that you are and for the lasting impact you have had on everyone who ever had the privilege of knowing you. You had the most infectious smile and laugh of anyone I’ve ever known. I can still hear it in my mind and feel it in my heart. There was no way to resist smiling and laughing along with you. But you could also talk about the hard things and feel the deep things. Nothing was off limits, and you had a way of putting others at ease so they felt safe enough to open up. I’m grateful for the memories I was able to create with you and Sherri. I have so many specific ones and I still always think of you when I see a double rainbow 🙂 You will be terribly missed. May your memory be a blessing to all impacted by the loss of you.
Miss you bud. I’m especially going to miss all the late night conversations that were not finished. Our deepest condolences. What a gentle soul.
What a loss to us all. When ever I saw Aaron he always greeted me with the most amazing smile. He was a sweet sweet soul who always made us laugh. He was full of light and kindness. A light that was extinguished much to soon. I will always have fond memories of you Aaron and will miss you. God speed to you my friend.
I went to college with Aaron and lived with him afterward. I can’t remember any time that he didn’t have a smile on his face (as evidenced by the attached photos). He brought so much joy to every person in a room. He volunteered to do the most annoying things just to help a gal out (again reference the photos). I will miss him terribly.
So unfair , so not right .. Aaron was my first American friend and I couldn’t have been luckier to have met him back in OHS. He was just the sweetest, kindest and funniest guy ever.. we got the chance to meet a couple times long afterwards , and mostly that time in Paris in 2007 when I got the chance to meet Sherry, and see again Bobbi and Jeff. All my thoughts and love to your guys and the children. Caroline
To say that word of your passing came as a shock, is an understatement. I shall always remember the teen aged Aaron, who hung around my house with my daughter Kate, son Mike, and best friend, Jake. I enjoyed watching the four of you grow up, your teaching us Jewish traditions and cooking chicken with biscuits. You were the consumate instigator Aaron … surely you remember the evening of my housewarming. I entered the front door of my new house and you and Jake had turned every piece of furniture upside down! Artwork turned toward the walls. Carpets flipped over! And I had company arriving within the hour. Yours was the first name off my lips! “Aaron Goldman!” I loved you.
So many grateful memories of Aaron are blossoming. He was always ready when I had a question about a kid…and that sweet smile and gorgeously kind eyes! Rosie is doing her best to comfort Bodhi, and love always to Aaron’s loved ones.
Aaron,
It is with so much sadness I write this. I have sat down to do so a few times and was unable.
I met you the day you graduated from 6th grade. We were quickly the best of friends. So many memories.
Throughout high school it is hard to remember a weekend that did not involve you, Jake and Kumar. Hanging at the house, cooking, weird science, torturing my mom.. who you taught me to call Carol.
At times we fought like siblings, but always loved as family.
It is fitting the memorial is at pine lake. Many days spent there trying to solve the world’s problems and the meaning of life.
Time and life brought us in different directions. But I always thought we would reconnect.
It doesn’t seem possible you are gone. I am so sad for your family, Jake, Kumar and countless people I am sure you have touched along the way.
You will always be part of me. You helped shape who I am. You will be missed.
Kate Ryan
His wife and kids remain In my thoughts and my prayers – grief is the hard price we pay for love – and his love for his family was immense – I know the grief is immense!
Here for you- reach out if any support needed.
I knew him as a compassionate kind hearted colleague.